"It's hard for us to think of our daughter in terms of where she is right now.". Six years later, after giving birth to another child, a failed marriage and allegations of drug abuse, she returned to the Dr. Phil stage. We have a feeling this family sticks to daycare only nowadays! There was also a multitude of other really bad problems. We're told that's why police made the decision to have her committed. Alexandra opens the doors to her life and lets viewers see exactly what she's been up to. "Dr. Phil, on information and belief, was paid either in money or notoriety, or both, for endorsing not only Island View, but also a raft of CRC compounds just as abusive." Its not only teenagers who give their parents grief. Dr Phil Family Alexandra Out of Hiding Rehab Channel 439 subscribers Subscribe 67 Share Save 41K views 5 years ago Show more Show more NEW HOUSE TOUR! ", The producer allegedly told them not to say anything about the trip to find heroin, and Smith cannot remember who it was who suggested the dangerous mission. The show provides the most comprehensive forum on mental health issues in the history of television. Her mother, on the other hand, said that the incident was all a mistake and he didnt mean tocause any injury, despite Dr. Phil trying to convince her the facts said otherwise. Even in reruns, he kills. The humiliation suffered on stage led to her "collapsing in tears and engaging in erratic behavior." They said there was always a lock on the refrigerator, security cameras in the childrens room and kitchen, and they were often served moldy food. Not only would he play for up to 20 hours straight, but it would often make him aggressive and disrespectful. I've had her for four months with me. February 21, 2019, 3:04 AM. Kaylie said her ex-husband was too square and should get with the times. We upload new videos every day, so make sure you subscribe and ring the bell for all notifications, so you don't miss a single one.Full episodes of the Dr. Phil Show premiere every weekday on CBS, with a new season premiering every fall in 2020, 2021, 2022, and 2023. "I've been in jail the past month and a half and here we are," he added. Though the case of Natalee Holloway, the Alabama teen who disappeared in Aruba, remains unsolved, Dr. Phil made noise when he decided to wade into the infamous investigation. It just doesn't happen." Viewers ate it up and in a follow up "after the taping" segment, Alex says he is who he is, he's "bougie" and his parents raised him to be that way. This list features twenty of the top families that have been featured in episodes. Why? Dr. Phil is the top-rated daytime talk show attracting millions of viewers every day alongside other talk shows, including The Ellen Show with Ellen DeGeneres, The Dr. Oz Show, The Kelly Clarkson Show, and The Steve Wilkos Show. After months of no communication, Alexandra reaches out to Dr. Phil for help. Tabloid show Dr. Phil has been on the air since 2002 and was recently renewed until 2023, so its showing no signs ofslowing down. However, Dr. Phil pointed out that she was doing barely anything to get her kids back, including missing scheduled visitations. That's not to say that he can't provide excellent advice, just that his treatment tactics and his methods may not follow traditional (or proper) medical guidelines. For almost two decades, Dr. Phil McGraw has used his experience as a clinical and forensic psychologist to intervene in the lives of the guests he interviews. Was she taking drugs during her pregnancy? TM & 2023 Peteski Productions, Inc. 2023 CBS Interactive Inc.. a Paramount company. ", Maryanne Bodolay and Sally E. Smith were both huge fans of Dr. Phil, but, when they were apparently misled by show producers, their opinion of the TV psychologist changed dramatically. Mahaffa claimed that she "suffered a mental breakdown backstage," according to lawsuit documents obtained by TMZ. Go behind the scenes to see how the drama unfolded before Alexandra's fianc, Tony, attempted to retake the polygraph exam.For more, visit http://www.drphil.. Just ratings for him. Dr. Phil makes it clear that he's tired of hearing excuses from the women, and he has a stern warning for the family.Dr. ALL RIGHTS RESERVED. Countless individuals, friends, and families have written into the show asking for Dr. Phils help with all sorts of problems. "They've kind of written each other off. Several years ago, Dr. Phil invited a family to take part in the show who said their 12-year-old was hearing voices. Kaden Mahaffa appeared on Dr. Phil to be part of the support system for her boyfriend, who was the victim of sexual abuse. He said chances werent looking good for her unless she turned her act around soon. Will she decide to go to treatment? Teenage Pregnancy: Adoption or Motherhood? In 2016, Dr. Phil was thrown for a curveball when he had to deal with a woman, named Olivia, who claimed her daughter had been illegally adopted. Dr. Phil of course wasnt afraid to call out the problematic mother on her nonsense, saying that she cant just pretend the evidence isnt there. They were helped in a different way, though. "Where is Tony in this mix?" We all have that one episode from a talk show that we've caught at random and years later still think about. Alex was brought on the show at the request of his sister who wrote in to ask Dr. Phil to help her get it into her mom's head that her brother was no good. Last year, 20-year-old Taylor appeared on Dr. Phil claiming that her mother stole her identity on several occasions in order to open multiple credit cards. Dr. Phil even arranged an ultrasound for her, though it did little to help. This video is unavailable because we were unable to load a message from our sponsors. "I didn't come here to talk about the amount of pain pills that I use. Shelley Duvall, the actor best known forThe Shining and Popeye, was clearly struggling with mental health issues when she came on Dr. Phil. "I don't even know how to start this video," he said. Dr. Phil asks Erin about Katherine's relationship with Alexandra. We dont know if Dr. Phil ever had a guest as entitled as 19-year-old Cherylyn. ", Sierra Myers (pictured above) was on Dr. Phil because she was underage and soliciting sex from older men online. The Dr. Phil Show is an American daytime talk show and TV series with host and personality Dr. Phil McGr. "It was just the three of us girls the entire time." Each full episode contains an interview or multiple interviews with doctors, teens, families, parents, kids, and more. Is Alexandra in more danger than anyone could've imagined? Tamara said she gets her hair and makeup done on a daily basis by a professional team who comes to her home. His "don't care" attitude had people curious what happened to Alex after the taping? Phil' Show. According to the Chicago Tribune, show producers agreed to pay $20,000 to test the DNA evidence in her case. Send me email updates and offers from TMZ and its Affiliates. Since, Alex has posted a few times on his YouTube channel, including an update in June that his charges were dropped. Where are she and her children living? My feeling was we were used.". She was also worried about what Olivia would say to the girl, which could be detrimental to her wellbeing. They haven't seen their daughter in more than two months. ALL RIGHTS RESERVED, Download the TMZ App on the Apple App Store, Download the TMZ App on the Google Play Store. Audience members definitely felt creeped out when Dr. Phil interview an untraditional family that was technically barely legal. We reached out to Dr. Phil's show, but they said they can't comment on pending litigation. Learn how Alexandra scrounges up cash, and what Dr. Phil tells her she needs to do.For more, visitDo you want to be on the show? "It was disappointing the way Dr. Phil decided to conduct the show. Although the suit ended in dismissal, it alleged that Sierra endured a "demented regimen" that consisted of "mindless tasks of blind obedience enforced by cruel punishment." Now 23, she has three children by three different fathers who are being raised by her parents, Erin and Marty, she is unemployed and living with the father of her third child. Shed also been on a slew of medications for conditions like ODD, ADHD, and Disruptive Mood Disorder, but nothing seemed to be helping in the long-term. In response, friends and fans of Duvall called out what the apparent exploitation of the former star. For special guests in need of more extensive treatment than one Dr. Phil episode can offer, McGraw offered a stay in the "Dr. Phil House," which according to a lawsuit brought by some guests against McGraw and CBS (via The Orange County Register), was nothing more than "a cramped, windowless 'mock house' on a sound stage in a bad neighborhood." We wonder if they ever got to meet each other in real life! He likened himself to Theodore Roosevelt, quoting the 26th U.S. President to Buzzfeed's Profile:"The credit goes to the man in the arena, you know, the man that stumbles while striving to do greatly. The only place to satisfy all of your guilty pleasures. After months of no communication, Alexandra reaches out to Dr. Phil for help. Sie knnen Ihre Einstellungen jederzeit ndern. Last year, a woman appeared on Dr. Phil recounting how she discovered her nanny, Ashleigh, had a double life. But he also told STAT that there things about the show that he didn't like and didn't think were "real.". Family Member, Friend or Colleague of a Guest. This is when, according to Smith, they reached out to a producer to get help with finding heroin. She became convinced she was in love with him and wanted to move to live with him. We haven't been able to independently verify whether Kaden is a certified therapist. Yet, according to some former guests of Dr. Phil, McGraw only made their conditions and situations worse. In his 2018 Reddit AMA (via E! And the other details of the man's family situation only made things that much more complicated and confusing. Find out how often she sees her children, and the status of her relationship with her family. Personal video footage from the family showed Makenze doing everything from biting her parents to throwing furniture. You can find that thread here. When Alexandra, oldest daughter in the Dr. Phil Family, first appeared on Dr. Phil nine years ago, she was 14 and pregnant. Why did she claim to shop so much? Tias father and step-mother said their daughterwas constantly making up lies about them, while shesaid they were refusing to own up to all the things theyve put her through. "When we got to the show, the whole premise changed. "Then she panicked, and tried to get out a window. I knew it was coming. In the description section of the video, he wrote that his mom and Dr. Phil had called authorities to press charges and he was being sent to jail. "I went to jail for pretty much everything he said on the show." Dies geschieht in Ihren Datenschutzeinstellungen. Dr. Phil McGraw and wife Robin. Mahaffa was asked about her apparent "savant abilities," her "x-ray vision," and "representing [herself] as a credentialed professional," all while McGraw's audience laughed mockingly at her. Yes! Kalpoe and his brother responded by filing an $800 million defamation suit against Dr. Phil and CBS, as per The Los Angeles Daily News. "Their take is, We can't do anything until she's caught doing something wrong.' Alex's sister, Elizabeth, says that her mom, Kimberly, "enables" her brother and his behavior is out of control. A few days later, Herzog was being helped onto the Dr. Phil stage, so intoxicated that he could barely walk. After doing a search on social media, the mom found a profile her nanny created in which she posted photos of the little boy dressed as a girl, claiming it was her daughter. Dr. Phil tells compelling stories about real people. After months of mystery, your questions are answered! Below is a post from Erin, her mother, on Facebook. But the ones that do often come back to the show to catch up on how theyve been doing. Dr. Phil is Getting Roasted for Comparing Coronavirus to Car Crashes and Swimming Pool Accidents, Ava Louise Talks Going Viral on 'Dr. People are going to him, like us, with serious, life-threatening problems looking for help. Alexandra's two other children are also in Erin and Marty's care. Despite multiple pregnancy tests and professionals telling her she was not pregnant, the teen remained positive that she was indeed nine months along. In return, Bembenek would appear on the show to reveal the results Yet, her lawyer, Mary Woehler, told the Los Angeles Times that the living arrangement that the show set up for Bembenek was disastrous. What was Erin's reaction when she learned her father survived?Do you want to be on the show? According to Dr. Phil's lawyer in a response given to The Wrap, "The Myers' daughter was at Island View voluntarily, and while McGraw recommended treatment, he did not control it.". Back in 2015, a couple made headlines after it was revealed the extent to which they mistreated their six children, which led the media to dub their home the house of horrors.. She added her older daughter was just jealous that she had a new man in her life. In the episode, it was revealed Makenze had seen five psychiatrists and three therapists since she was 5 years old. Her parents, Marty and Erin, are extremely concerned about her whereabouts and well-being. "So we were outraged," Rivera said, because Halloway was reportedly "in and out of consciousness"during the sexual encounter. "We never had anyone," she said. Dr. Phil questions Alexandra's choices. When Erin traces Alexandra's footsteps, what she finds may shock you. Representatives from the show denied both claims. Dr. Phil is the top-rated daytime talk show attracting millions of viewers every day alongside other talk shows, including The Ellen Show with Ellen DeGeneres, The Dr. Oz Show, The Kelly Clarkson Show, and The Steve Wilkos Show. She also said she regularly heard voices in her head telling her to harm her younger siblings. TM & 2023 Peteski Productions, Inc. 2023 CBS Interactive Inc.. a Paramount company. "We actually called the police and asked them to go check on the baby," she says. Sometimes I hear whispers and I cant make out what theyre saying, Aneska told Dr. Phil. Dr Phil Family "Separate but Equal" Thread September 20, 2019 bookofkatherine18 Book of Katherine's thread on the Dr Phil Family's errors in freedom and judgement against Alexandra, and how we can get that freedom too. The only person who didnt seem okay with this arrangement was Dr. Phil. Is she in more danger than anyone could have imagined? Yikes! The teen later re-appeared on the show for a follow-up and was able to admit thered been no pregnancy (she blamed it on stomach gas). According to theNew York Post, Bodolay, a former employee of the National Association to Advance Fat Acceptance (NAAFA), and Smith, the editor-in-chief of Big Beautiful Woman, say they were lured to the show after a producer called her and "asked about the way heavy people are treated and how she was happy with her body size.". He admits he lies, cheats, and steals thousands of dollars from friends and family, just so he can live a lifestyle which includes shopping, tanning, and getting his hair done. After a hugeargument with her parents, and them telling her to get out, Maddie said she moved in with a guy she met online and dropped out of school. Phil did grill her, but mostly about her credentials as a therapist. Jillian, on the other hand, said she doesnt feel comfortable having Olivia in her daughters life as Olivia had been stalking them. According to a lawsuit filed by her parents, Terri and David Myers (via Courthouse News Service), the teen's problems likely resulted from a traumatic event in which she witnessed the murder of a man with whom she was sexually involved. Asked by the tabloid about the treatment promised by McGraw, Duvall gave an incoherent statement, Clearly, the daytime ratings giant didn't turn things around for Duvall, who was already on a bad path prior to her appearance. Alexandra comes face to face with two of the country's leading spine specialists and hears their candid thoughts about her back injury and pill use. The title of the segment was "26-Year-Old Says Mom Has Allowed Him To Get Away With Stealing" and he didn't really deny it either. She was also allegedly "forced to be in the same room with a completely live naked man while he exposed his entire naked body, genitals and all," according to the lawsuit (via TMZ). In the end, Hayley agreed to go to a treatment facility after Dr. Phil told the audience her mental health needed to be evaluated. In an interview with STAT, however, Smith claims that they were not provided the medical assistance they so desperately needed. ", Alexandra has been dating her fianc, Tony, for two years, and he is the father of her third child. Parents: Is Your Child Addicted to Screen Time? "I hate addiction and what it has done to my family and my daughter! Advice for getting moms to embrace motherhood. Worse yet, Bembenek died of liver failure at 52 without having her name cleared. He talked about the potential of going to jail given he admitted to stealing on national TV, but he didn't think his parents would do that to him. However, in the same chat, he also said that he is "not a fan" of McGraw. "Dr. Phil's psychological remedy," the complaint stated, "was to offer free treatment for the daughter at Island View, a Utah punitive behavior modification lock-down facility.". Earlier this year, a distressed mother appeared on Dr. Phil asking for the doctors help with her 12-year old son, whom she said was obsessed withintensevideo games. Despite the couple making a combined total of $90,000 per year, her out-of-control purchases put them more than $60,000 under in a few short years. Targeted Because 0f Your Race or Religion? As for Dr. Phil's response to the accusations of exploitation? The teenagers mother wrote into the show after her daughter maxed out all seventeen of her moms credit card and subsequently put them $25,000 in debt. Hed gone as far as to lock his mother out of the house of one occasion and refused to let her back in until she brought him Starbucks (which she did). As for the actual Dr. Phil episode, Bodolay believes they were ambushed. Did she plot to have her family killed? During the episode, the wife explained she mainly spent the money on clothing and accessories, boasting about how she owns 50 pairs of shoes and 100 dresses. Phil' and Chasing Clout [EXCLUSIVE], Dr. Phil's Beverly Hills Mansion Is for Sale and the Pictures Are Absolutely Wild. Last year, a teenager wrote Dr. Phil asking him to intervene in her mothers relationship. Audience members couldnt believe their ears when Kaylie admitted she believes her 14-year-old daughter Gabrielle is blossoming under her supervision, despite allowing her to drop out of school. And thenotable part was she saw nothing wrong with it! The teenager told Dr. Phil she wanted her mom to end the relationship and that her little sister should have supervised visits only. \"You're broke, you're homeless, and you've lost your kids,\" Dr. Phil tells her. The Dr. Phil Family Returns Six years ago, Erin, mother of Alexandra and Katherine, and wife of Marty, wrote Dr. Phil asking for help. Hayley was a youngperson whose family wrote into the show after she became convinced she was pregnant with Jesus - and that rapper Eminem was the father. Get TMZ breaking news sent right to your browser! "It was a complete bust," she said of their appearance on Dr. Phil. Worksheet: Documenting the Facts of Drug Use, How Families Can Overcome Difficult Times. 20 Most Memorable Families Who Were On The 'Dr. Now, many viewers are wondering what's become of the former teen mom since her last appearance and the shocking news that her third child was born addicted to drugs. Leilah and Nathan, who is getting ready to enter kindergarten, often stay with Marty and Erin. For over a decade, Dr. McGraw has used the show's platform to make psychology accessible to the general public by addressing important personal and social issues. Hopefully she won't be kicking out anymore drug addicted babies for her parents to raise. Family Member, Friend or Colleague of a Guest. ", "You're Broke, You're Homeless, and You've Lost Your Kids". She added, "My mom has known for years that Alex is stealing from her and she does nothing about it.". Many of the guests on Dr. Phil whove had their children removed from their care by the authorities are desperate to get them back. He admitted to feeling "no remorse" and not feeling guilty at all. As for her "erratic behavior" backstage we're told the show has a policy of safety first, and when Kaden started going out of control, Paramount security called cops, who determined she was a danger to herself and others. But Bembenek wanted her name cleared and Dr. Phil could help. Are You Involved in a Story Making Headlines? Sandy and Casey Parsons took their niece Erica in after . & 2023 Peteski Productions, Inc. 2023 CBS Interactive Inc.. a Paramount company think of our daughter terms... 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